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MATTERS OF THE HEART – WITH THE LOVE DOCTOR

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On Valentine’s eve, he walked me halfway to my boarding house as he always did every night after prep. We stopped and stood on the dark street quietly for a while. Then he held my hand for the first time ever. He looked straight into my eyes. I felt electric waves running up and down my spine and spreading through my whole body. He was so cute and adorable and this particular night, he looked extra handsome. I wondered if it was his jelled hair or his well pressed sized five shirt that did it.

I thought about him throughout the night as I fetched my water for the first morning, packed my books for the next day, and tucked myself into bed. I dreamt about him wedding me at a beautiful waterfall, just the two of us and Mother Nature. I yearned to make love to him in ways unimaginable….

 

Hello dear friends, have you realised how most of the time all such stories or real life happenings between two young people claiming to be in love, end up in sex. Most things around us today happen to be sexualised in one form or the other. From the bill board adverts in town, through the sexual innuendos in the radio jingles of aphrodisiacs, to the suggestive T.V commercials bombarding young minds everywhere.

I will be very brief today. I will present to you my version of the famous ABC for preventing H.I.V AIDS and the so called unwanted pregnancies.

A= ABSTAIN FROM EVERY FORM OF SEXUAL ACTIVITY AS LONG AS YOU AREN’T MARRIED. You are young and free from certain responsibilities at the moment. Obviously someone is paying that school fees because he or she or relation brought you into this world and acknowledges at the moment you aren’t in the position to do so. Keep it that way. Lighten the burden of that parent, guardian or sponsor. As long as you keep it that way, there will be no need to worry about pregnancies, sexually transmitted diseases etc

B = BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR MARRIAGE PARTNER. This particular instruction is strictly only those who are currently married and also for you dear young one, to remember and apply when you finally marry in the future. You can only have sexual intercourse with someone you are married to. Period. Any other form of sexual activity is very dangerous and has consequencies much worse than contracting AIDS. It can take a soul to eternal torture and damnation in a dark place called HELL. Married couples are therefore admonished to be faithful to each other in order to have, maintain and enjoy their God given peace of mind.

C = CONTROL YOURSELF. You are a complete, beautiful, high functioning creation of God who is fully equipped to be able to say ‘NO’ when the need arises. We have been given a special ability called SELF CONTROL through the work of God’s own Spirit working in and with us. So yes, dear friend, it is possible to control our appetites by refusing to invest in them and by refusing to yield our bodies to those desires. Let’s draw closer to the One Who made us and we will continue to be able to maintain that control.

In the next edition, yours truly will be dissecting the topic: “WHAT IS THE RIGHT AGE OR TIME FOR A YOUNG PERSON TO ENTER INTO A RELATIONSHIP”

If you have an opinion on that please share with me. It will be fun. Send your ideas to me via:

EMAIL: thecocktailmedia@gmail.com

 

 

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